Being aware of your own actions

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Sometimes, being in a relationship might seem such a chore. It can become overwhelming, overbearing and burdensome. If, at some point in time, we feel this way, why then are we always so eager to be in them? Initially, everyone knows that a relationship is fun and exciting, but how do you carry that excitement and joy through the entire relationship? The key to this is awareness.

Many times, we are not aware of how we make others feel. What we are aware of is how others make us think. If we want to have an enjoyable relationship, then we must create it. Don’t think about what your girlfriend or 24hr escort has given you or what they have not been able to provide for you; if you decide to make an effort to bring a sense of enjoyment to the relationship, it just might be what helps it survive and grow.

There are many roles that you may have to play in your relationship, and so will your girl, but that should not be an excuse for why your relationship is so tired and dull. We always tend to think that someone else has to change; why can’t we learn to change ourselves, our attitudes to how we look at our lives and, by extension, our relationships?

Before we learn to enjoy our relationships, we must learn to love life, to enjoy it, take a few risks, laugh a few times, sometimes at ourselves, and sometimes at 24-hour Companions. How we view life and its life will determine how we treat others in our relationships. If we are happy, they are so glad; if we are upset, we are ensuring they know it. It does not have to be like that. Life is too short to make the little things steal your joy, your happiness and your peace.

Make up your mind about being with your girlfriend or wife. If you don’t want to be with them, you may never enjoy your relationship. Once you decide that you are in it for the long haul and that you love her, don’t be afraid to let her know it. Make it a conscious choice to change your attitude in your relationship, as this is the only way you will be able to enjoy life together.

Relationships don’t have to get boring; they don’t have to be stressful. With the right attitude, you can have the relationship you always dreamed of. It’s all about perspective, so don’t let anyone else tell you differently.

Book from a reputable agency

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Men are always looking for new ways to enjoy life. One of those ways may be with London escorts, and there is nothing wrong with that. How you go about making a connection with the companions, however, should be done with caution. There are many scamming agencies, so here are a few guidelines to help you should you book with a good London escort agency.

Do lots of research on the agency before making a final decision. There are a lot of con artists out there, and you don’t want to give them the satisfaction of getting your hard-earned money. Look for reviews, or if you know of a friend who has been with escorts before, you could always ask for a recommendation and use their choice of escort agency.

When meeting the escorts for the first time, it is suggested that you maybe get to know them a little. It may be better to meet her and have a light conversation before getting intimate. Find out a little bit about what she has to offer. It also gives you a chance to analyse her not only physically but on an intellectual level as well.

Ensure that you are prepared and comfortable when meeting with your companion, whether at home or in your choice of hotel. Remember, you want to create an experience that is great not only for yourself but for your escort as well. If you can do this, then you, as well as the lady, will have a great time.

Whenever you meet London escorts, always remember it isn’t just their reputation on the line but yours as well, so always be a gentleman. When you are writing your reviews about them online, she will be telling the other ladies about you, so remember, a review always works two ways.

Once you follow these simple guidelines, you should not have any problems. Enjoy the moment and enjoy your escorts.

So how do you date an escort?

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Sometimes, clients ask us about dating a 24-hour escort and how it works. Many people are interested in this particular topic because they can’t imagine it can work at all.

Sometimes clients ask because they want to date escorts in London – they have fallen in love, perhaps with one of our 24-hour Companions – and they need to know the practicalities and what one can expect from dating an escort.

We do not claim to hold all the secrets of the human heart – who does? – but we can offer some practical advice.

Our ladies have had relationships with “normal” men, but not many relationships because it is hard to find a man who has the patience and understanding to date an escort. There is your first criterion then – to date a staff you need patience and understanding.

In our experience, our escorts do work hard to show an interest in their clients, to anticipate their needs, to show them affection and understanding – but this is the job of the escort. And escorts can separate their feelings from their job.

We find that men in relationships with escorts should show some interest in the job their girlfriend does, but not too much. It must be acknowledged, but obsessive questioning over employment details and what happens is unhealthy. Think about it: if you are a woman doing an ordinary office job, then it is unlikely your partner questions you obsessively about it.

How long were you in the office? What did your boss/clients say to you today? What time did you take your lunch? How many meetings did you have?

To date an escort, you must accept the realities of her job and then remember that the truth of her heart lies in what she says and does with YOU.

Another little tip we’d like to pass on is that escorts in London are often used to generosity and big gestures from clients, so small, romantic and thoughtful gestures go down well. They appreciate foot massages (all those high heels can make the balls of their feet ache), someone who remembers to record the TV shows they love and a man who can make hot chocolate just the way they like it.

We’ll admit it: few men can knowingly date escorts, but if you’re brave enough to do it, we will think highly of you.

A bit of privacy if you please

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There are, however, some things I haven’t done, despite a few reasonable requests, and that’s letting myself be filmed for the enjoyment of another. I do mean in an adult context.

Consenting adults in a trusting relationship may enjoy the odd “private home collection”. Sadly, I’m not someone who likes to participate. I would be a bit scared that my body may appear on YouTube or as a link on a social networking site. If I wanted to be a porn star, then filming wouldn’t bother me, but I am an elite escort and like a bit of privacy.

You wouldn’t believe some of the things I have been asked to do in my time whilst on a date with a client. Nothing surprises me anymore, and I am very open-minded indeed.

When I started, a client got his camcorder out. He said he thought I’d like it; I told him he should have told me first! I was in no frame of mind to pout and pose down a camera lens, so I told him either to take me out for dinner or forget the whole experience. Well, the room had cost him an arm and a leg, so with a grumble and furrowed brow, he packed it all away and called us a taxi. Did I stay longer than the two hours? No. Did he call me again? No. Did I care? No.

So now, should there be even a whisper of something I’m not sure of or something that goes against my moral code, I say no, and I walk away – I don’t even enter into a discussion. My regular clients know what they can and can’t get away with when I join them out and about. The greatest gift you can give your 24-hour Companions lady is respect.

A certain class

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Fortunately, I’m a 24-hour Companion escort, and my clients are of a particular class. They are exceptionally well-off businessmen, wealthy celebrities and filthy rich heirs. This doesn’t mean that I sponge off them or demand anything. They are clients, and I am professional, not to mention independent of my finances. I only say this because I know the right people to ask for financial advice… and the best one-of-a-kind furniture shops and exclusive stores!

I enjoy shopping through London’s finest boutiques, like those hidden treasures in Chelsea and off Mayfair. I have a designer bag or pair of Jimmy’s, and I must frequent Selfridges for my skincare. My beautiful apartment is furnished by Laura Ashley, and bespoke contemporary pieces are found in unique one-off shops. But these things make me happy.

I don’t deny that I am well off and have nice things. I don’t gamble, I have no secret vices apart from shopping, and I don’t owe money. I own my property and live well, and I am not ashamed to admit that I love my life. I know my work has a sell-by-date, and I can’t carry on in this line of work forever, so I have shares, savings and I have my head screwed on right.

Today’s date with my client is a “girlfriend experience.” He has booked me overnight as he has a few days off. My client is an international merchant banker and owns three finance companies overseas. He’s 42 and so attractive.

He is a complete pushover when I have one of my long, toned model legs draped over him as I run my fingers through his chest hair. I need updated information on my stocks and shares to make his unknowing confessions about investor relations worthwhile; I will treat him to a freshly waxed body to die for treatment.