Sometimes, being in a relationship might seem such a chore. It can become overwhelming, overbearing and burdensome. If, at some point in time, we feel this way, why then are we always so eager to be in them? Initially, everyone knows that a relationship can be fun and exciting, but how do you sustain that excitement and joy throughout the entire relationship? The key to this is awareness.
Often, we are unaware of how our actions make others feel. What we are aware of is how others influence our thoughts. If we want to have an enjoyable relationship, then we must create it. Don’t think about what your girlfriend or 24-hour escort has given you or what they have not been able to provide for you. If you decide to make an effort to bring a sense of enjoyment to the relationship, it just might be what helps it survive and grow.
There are many roles that you may have to play in your relationship, and so will your girl, but that should not be an excuse for why your relationship is so tired and dull. We often tend to think that someone else has to change; why can’t we learn to change ourselves, our attitudes towards how we view our lives, and, by extension, our relationships?
Before we learn to enjoy our relationships, we must learn to love life, to enjoy it, take a few risks, laugh a few times, sometimes at ourselves. How we view life and life will determine how we treat others in our relationships. If we are happy, they are delighted; if we are upset, we ensure they know it. It doesn’t have to be that way. Life is too short to let the little things steal your joy, happiness, and peace.
Make up your mind about being with your girlfriend or wife. If you don’t want to be with them, you may never enjoy your relationship. Once you decide that you are in it for the long haul and that you love her, don’t be afraid to let her know it. Make it a conscious choice to change your attitude in your relationship, as this is the only way you will be able to enjoy life together.
Relationships don’t have to get boring; they don’t have to be stressful. With the right attitude, you can have the relationship you always dreamed of. It’s all about perspective, so don’t let anyone else tell you differently.
