There are few things more frustrating than encountering a repeat booking without a clear recollection of the client’s preferences, background, or the specifics of the last meeting. For example, a simple note detailing: “Jake, who resides in Chelsea, prefers to dine at Harrods for lunch and has a particular aversion to black lingerie” can make all the difference. This level of detail helps provide personalised service and enhances the overall ‘girlfriend experience’ that my distinguished clients truly deserve. By jotting down such insights, I can ensure that each interaction feels unique and thoughtfully tailored, reinforcing the strong connections I aim to build with my clients.
Naturally, it’s common to feel a sense of attraction towards clients, as the engagement can create a friendly and vibrant atmosphere, making the end of the evening particularly enjoyable. However, I strive to maintain a balanced perspective, ensuring that I don’t become overly infatuated or lose my emotional equilibrium. I’ve observed that many of my close friends, who also work in similar environments, have fallen into the allure of such attractions, often neglecting the professional boundaries that are essential for maintaining a healthy working relationship. Their experiences serve as a cautionary tale for me, reinforcing my commitment to keep my feelings in check while delivering the best service possible.
Some ladies had regular clients and ended up giving up their jobs for their newly found “loves”. One moved to Paris for her man, and he promised her the world. She quickly grew tired of not working, but he didn’t trust her to find a job, so they ended their relationship, and she returned to London with no job and a broken heart.
Sometimes, you have to fortify yourself with an invisible armour to face the world. My regular clients are charming, ideal gentlemen who have travelled to London for just a brief respite, often seeking my companionship for a handful of hours. When the time comes, you meticulously dress up, prepare yourself, and make your way to their luxurious hotel. Inside, they treat you with the utmost respect, as if you were an ordinary person, hiding the complexities of our relationship beneath layers of civility.
However, it can be pretty disheartening, especially when you’re enveloped in the opulence of one of Knightsbridge’s most exquisite hotels. Stepping out into the grand lobby, you catch a glimpse of your reflection and see mascara trailing down your cheeks, remnants of the emotional intricacies of the encounter. But you remind yourself to harden your resolve. I know I’m not merely a trollop; I take pride in my self-worth, and paradoxically, it is often these very clients-the ones who respect and value me the most—who I find myself happily accepting money from. In those fleeting moments, I embrace the dichotomy of our encounter and find strength in who I am.
Simple rules – enjoy your client’s company, but don’t get too involved. Learn about your regulars’ interests and remember their desires. However, you are number 1 and always take care of yourself first and foremost.
