For some people, being single is taboo, but sometimes, it is necessary to grow and mature into the person you want to be. No woman is worth sacrificing your goals or dreams for, no matter how long her legs are or how attractive she may be. If you can’t be yourself, be respected, or be loved for who you are and what you can contribute to the relationship, then it may be better to go your separate ways.
We all know this is easier said than done, especially if you have children with your lady or have been living together for some time. The pain from a relationship like this seems to break you down and tear your heart out, literally. To prevent a total meltdown, here are a few suggestions to help you keep the little dignity you may have remaining, especially if your breakup was done in public.
Meditation is a great way to distract yourself from the troubles of your breakup. If you have never meditated, it may be difficult at first to clear your mind totally of unwanted thoughts. However, as you make time from your busy schedule to meditate more often, you will notice that you are at peace with yourself and will be able to regain control of your life and thoughts.
Even though you may be upset with your ex, couldn’t you refrain from taking it out on the children? Make sure that they are well taken care of. You will be surprised at how spending time with your children, hearing them laugh, and seeing them have a good time in your company helps you better cope with your breakup. Even though you couldn’t keep it together, at least you have received the blessings of children in the process.
After a breakup, give yourself time to heal before getting into another relationship. This prevents you from entering a new relationship with more baggage than you should, which can sabotage it from the start. Be true to yourself. Only you will know when you are ready to go down that road again, so don’t let anyone, not even a beautiful London escort, force you into a relationship you are unprepared for.
